This is for my people who went through the same thing i did with my best friend. You're not alone. I know how you feel. You just gotta have a little patience.
So what did i go through? well where do i start? let's seeeee...... You know what? No, im not gonna tell the whole story, but let me just make some points out of them.
In life, things dont always go your way. Nothing is forever. even your friends, best friends. You just have to learn to let go at some point. They'll meet new people, make new friends. You cant expect them to just be friends with you.. So you should do the same thing too. meet new people and make new friends. when they're with their new friends, they might not realise that you feel left out because they're in the company of new, exciting, fun friends. So you know what? get over it already. hang out with your new friends! It doesnt mean that you have to forget all about your bestfriend, but what would you rather do? sit around watching your best friend drift further away from you? or have the same fun your best friend's having? i'd choose the latter if i were you. and i did actually. made my life easier.
It may hurt at first; when you see how your best friend doesnt even realise that you cant stand staying in the same room with her anymore, even for 10 seconds. when you see how your best friend doesnt even realise that you dont say, even a single word to her, for the past couple of weeks. when your best friend only realised all that when someone else had the courage to ask her if anything happened between the two of you. and only that is when she realised everything and confronted you.. Yes, that may hurt at first. but hey, make new friends, everything will be fine.
So what did i go through? well where do i start? let's seeeee...... You know what? No, im not gonna tell the whole story, but let me just make some points out of them.
In life, things dont always go your way. Nothing is forever. even your friends, best friends. You just have to learn to let go at some point. They'll meet new people, make new friends. You cant expect them to just be friends with you.. So you should do the same thing too. meet new people and make new friends. when they're with their new friends, they might not realise that you feel left out because they're in the company of new, exciting, fun friends. So you know what? get over it already. hang out with your new friends! It doesnt mean that you have to forget all about your bestfriend, but what would you rather do? sit around watching your best friend drift further away from you? or have the same fun your best friend's having? i'd choose the latter if i were you. and i did actually. made my life easier.
It may hurt at first; when you see how your best friend doesnt even realise that you cant stand staying in the same room with her anymore, even for 10 seconds. when you see how your best friend doesnt even realise that you dont say, even a single word to her, for the past couple of weeks. when your best friend only realised all that when someone else had the courage to ask her if anything happened between the two of you. and only that is when she realised everything and confronted you.. Yes, that may hurt at first. but hey, make new friends, everything will be fine.
So you see, this is for my people who went through the same thing. and believe me, i know quite a few people who did. This is for you my friends. You're not alone. and im very happy to be friends with you. You know who you are.
xoxo.
xoxo.
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